Wednesday, June 20, 2012

My Great Debate

This might seem like an odd topic for me to post about but I would really love to hear the thoughts of other women. I've never been big on plastic surgery or any of it's likeness - sometimes a wonder if that is only because I can't afford it. I guess I should really back up and start at the beginning.

As a young girl I had no issues in the breast department. In fact I've never had a huge amount of confidence and rarely say positive things about myself, but, I must admit when it came to my breast... I was a fan. Then of course I had four children. Overall I can't complain, my stomach looks just like it did before my kids as does the rest of me with one exception, those breast I once loved our gone.

Everyone is quick to tell you one of the benefits of being pregnant -increased breast size- but no one every told me after I gave birth I would lose my PRE-pregnant breasts! Over the years, this is a physical thing that really bothers me. I can't wear the same tops I used to, I hate being seen in a swimsuit the lack of confidence with the way things turned out in that region can really play tricks on the mind. 

For a long time now I have been having the great breast implant debate with myself. I don't want huge ones, I just want what I once had back and in the right spot! I wouldn't be doing it for anyone but myself - my husband thinks it's a ridiculous idea. I however think, it would be good for my self-esteem. Then of course I can't help but think about the breast implant prices in the US

With four children can I really justify such a selfish purchase? Then again is it really selfish if it makes you feel better about yourself? Then I think is that vain of me to want or need to feel better about myself. I have four healthy kids, a loving husband why should I need implants to feel better about myself?

I don't know. I guess it's just one of those odd things I think about every so often and am just curious how others feel.

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7 comments:

Sarah said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

Personally, I think as long as it is done for yourself then I would do it.

Grace Hodgin said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

I don't know which is the right decision to be perfectly honest with you but I do know as a mother it is hard to make decisions about ourselves as we have sacrificed for our family for so long that any decision for ourselves actually seems selfish after a while. I think this one is entirely up to you and I know you will make the right choice.

Carolyn Colley said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

I think that you are the one that has to want it, not anybody else. I'm on the other end, when I had my first child, I was a size AA, went back to that size after having my son, then I had my daughter & now I wear a D, sometimes I wish I was back to at least a B. I gained a lot of weight with my daughter, not with my son. Again, I think it has to be what you want.

Pam said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

I want liposuction so I say go for it! :)

jayedee said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

you may not need implants at all....a good surgeon can tell you if a simple lift would be more appropriate. that being said, do what you need to do for you, if you can afford it. heck, if i could afford it, i'd have everything lifted and tucked so much that when i died, my belly button would be on the top of my head!

Closer to Lucy said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

I'm all about cosmetic intervention. I'd love to have my girls put back where they used to be... between gravity and kids - I say heck yeah!

Terri said...Best Blogger Tips[Reply to comment]Best Blogger Templates

No need for enhancement here but after my last child, I think I would be willing to discuss a reduction...bigger is not always better ;)

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